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The Reality of Middle School Today

Parents read this post and become aware of what is happening in middle school.

I hear parents say every day that they don't need to worry about drugs or alcohol with their child in middle school because their child is too young for that right now.  Well the reality is these parents are wrong. Drugs and alcohol are just the tip of the iceberg.  Children that are in the age group of going to middle school are now involved in very adult activities.
    To begin with, most campuses are better pharmacies than you pharmacy.  I have had middle school kids saying they can get Vicodin, Concerta, Ecstasy and of course weed and alcohol on the campus.  Some kids use at school and some use after school and on the weekend.
    A lot of middle school kids are sexually active, but they don't think so.  They are not engaging in intercourse but they are engaging in oral sex.  The kids say they are just messing around with each other and do not consider this sex.  They also have no idea about sexually transmitted diseases or how to protect themselves.
     Another common issue in middle school is bullying.  However, we are not just talking about one kid teasing another kid at school.  Often there is a group of kids teasing one kid and it is not just at school.  Now kids are using Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and texting by phone to tease and harass other kids.  And as many of you may recall there have been a number of kids who have committed suicide due to the teasing at school.
    These are just a few of the issues that are occurring at all middle schools and they are very serious.  Your child is not going to come to you to ask about these issues because  they feel embarrassed and they are afraid of getting in to trouble.  So parents even though you may feel embarrassed or awkward discussing these issues with your 11 year-old child, please do so. You may be saving their lives because they are dealing with things they know nothing about and these things can kill or have life long effects.
  Here is a YouTube video that might help:
http://youtu.be/bK8ZPzLkxjc

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